What if I can’t stop thinking about a hookup

People don’t like to be obsessed about things as it stops them from effective working and enjoying other sides of life. Thinking a lot about a hookup isn’t a good sign either.

Psychologists say, there can be two main reasons for that, when you liked a person or when you liked sex with them. The second factor is more impersonal and can be reached with others who like hookup.

So, if you realized exactly with this particular person you like being submissive or dominant, you like intensive penetration, dirty talk, or whatever else, just try this with another person.

It’s the best way to get rid of the emotional attachment and dependence that are not desirable for you. Things are harder if the addiction is towards one concrete personality though.

If this happens, try to remind to yourself what hookups are for, and that a deeper attitude wasn’t planned at all. Transfer your warmth and passion into a friendship with this person.

Friendship with benefits is special too, but it sets the boundaries and you won’t lose a bit of your freedom. Otherwise, just do not meet this person anymore and you’ll avoid problems.